Dating see you soon
By the time he sees you, you feel like you've already been dating for three weeks.
It's kind of like putting Miracle Gro on a sexual conquest.
It may seem simple, but it's incredibly effective if you're prepared to really listen to his answer."On a first date, a guy's gonna basically say, ' I don't believe in love' or ' I'll never get married,'" says Frances.
Raise your hand if you ever fudged the facts in your mind because you really wanted to see things through rose-colored glasses with a promising guy [raises hand! Well, the fudging-of-facts bit carries on throughout a relationship, sometimes keeping us committed to the wrong guy for months (or years).
All he did was like kiss me on the cheek a few times.
He seemed almost unreal like I’m normally used to those guys being hyper sexual and just all around pigs, but we hung out at his place and literally netflixed and chilled no funny buisness lol. The problem is I was honestly under the impression we were gonna hookup.
Frances is here to help us see things as they really are instead of how we want to see them.
Below, she takes us through a relationship reality check to keep your head clear at every stage of the relationship: Frances' first-date trick (known as her "Heartache Prevention Question") is simply to ask him, point blank, if he believes in X (X being your ultimate dream and goal, be it monogamy, marriage, having a family, or running away to join the circus).